9 months in - 9 months out







Month
9. NINE!! How did we get here?? Holy smokes, slow down!!!

How big is babe: 
He weighs in at 21lbs as of today. I thought he was bigger, but I'm terrible at guessing those things. He is just so solid!! We have our 9 month well baby on Friday, I'll get all the stats then :) 


Our week at a glance: 
These days our weeks look pretty much the same. Work/school, home, play, dinner, bath, bedtime - with the occasional outing for tacos and the park. We've been spending a lot of time on the weekends playing with cousins and watching them play sports. Go Nick! Go Em!! 


Something new this week: 
Clapping! I should say, MORE clapping. He started this about a week ago, but has really gotten into it these last few days. I LOVE to see him get excited and start clapping. Or when music comes on he shakes his little bootie and claps. I DIE!


Most challenging moment: 
I had to take bubs to Urgent Care on Saturday (9/30). I cried the whole way. I was so scared and confused - he wasn't nursing and was acting so strange. He had only taken 2/20 min naps by 2pm. It turned out he maybe (a 75% chance) had hand/foot/mouth. A very small case of it? It presented as a small rash on his legs and a spot on his hand. Hence the small case. I don't know. I was so scared. I think it was just a combination of him being overtired and out of sorts. We haven't had a whole day at home in months and as I was relishing in it, he was probably a bit confused. Napping in my own bed? What?! 

It really makes me feel so so so grateful for his overall health. In the grand scheme of things he is such a healthy babe and I am so lucky to spend my days with him. I sure did have a scary mama moment though. Whew. 

Something I loved this week:
Finn was sick which OF COURSE I never want, but he sure was snuggly. He is doing this new thing where he lays his head on my shoulder when I hold him. 

I DIE!!!

It literally makes my day. I love that - sick or not - he's getting to be such a sweet snuggly babe. 


Mama time: 
I haven't had much time for any me time lately. Scratch that, I have MADE much time for any me time lately. I know it is important and I am really feeling how important lately. I keep getting these signs reminding me how much self love is necessary. 

Well, the new shows came back on and I've been watching a few of them with a glass of wine here and there. Does that count?! I'm absolutely loving this new fall weather, so I think a bubble bath is in my future!


What am I eating: 
Ugh. 

Can I leave it at that? I'm eating...well, ok. I try to do as much meal planning as I can on the weekend. Making mostly soups, chili (which Finn LOVES), chicken, rice, etc. Things that are easy to put together during the week. The only thing is that I don't really feel good about my eating. My body is so different since being pregnant and having Finn and I just don't have the motivation/time these days to spring back into my old lifestyle of eating healthy :( 

I KNOW.

I actually make really healthy food for him, but I then just scarf down what is handy or maybe left over from lunch. Am I the only one that does this? Is there an easier way to eat healthy, make his food just as healthy if not healthier, all while doing it on my own? I feel so rushed and unorganized that I get frustrated and upset. I just end up starving myself (not good when you're still breastfeeding) and having a glass of wine. Wah.

Somebody help!

Finn's favorite foods:

Grandma's chili, turnkey meatballs (his absolute favorite!!), water, pasta, rice chex, puffs, hummus, cheerios, shredded chicken, 

What's working:
Routine!!!!

After school we come home, we play a bit while I make dinner, we eat dinner, then bath time. Then its an attempt at reading a book (he usually just wants to eat them these days) then nurse then bed. 

Those days we have to run an errand or meet a friend - it can really throw us off! Finn and me!! I never realized how sensitive to routine I was until this little man came along.

My body/movement:
I try to move as much as I can, but it's not always easy. After I get him to bed, clean up dinner and get ready for the next day, there isn't much time. I'm going to try to get better at this. Self-love is SO important. I need to make it a priority!!

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